The manufactured loyalty I just don't understand

The manufactured loyalty I just don't understand

I've always been an outlier when it comes to "hometown pride." You know that unspoken, often loudly proclaimed, obligation to pledge unwavering allegiance to the city you were born in or currently call home? Yeah, I've never quite grasped it. In fact, I find it a little… manufactured.

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Sunset in the desert garden

Sunset in the desert garden

Our arrival at Desert Botanical Garden in Phoenix was close to sunset. I was told that was the ideal time to visit because there's a light show at night where the desert and plants are lit up and magically dance to music. That is, the lights dance, not the actual plants. Not being familiar with a desert I ignorantly thought a cactus is a cactus. Not so! I got a chance to learn about the plants from all over.

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My partner refuses to drive, insists we take a bus - no thanks!

My partner refuses to drive, insists we take a bus - no thanks!

It's a new relationship but my partner doesn't drive. I hate always having to drive and pick him up. He said we can take a bus to go on dates instead of me driving. Bus is incredibly inconvenient so I end up driving and it leads to fights. Should he become an adult and drive himself around?

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Up against the wall and spread 'em

Up against the wall and spread 'em

We’ve all been tempted to steal at some point in our life. Whether we did it or not is another story. For our little Tanner, he has a habit of stealing without realizing it. (Allegedly. Do we have to say allegedly so he doesn’t get charged with something?)

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Put this on your radar

Put this on your radar

As a car enthusiast (I actually just got some new wheels today!), I love the gadgets that I'd never heard of and don't need. But, sometimes one comes along and I realize I did need it, I just never knew I needed it. And living in the Los Angeles area, this one was worth it.

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My yard is not a playground for your 'outdoor cat'

My yard is not a playground for your 'outdoor cat'

As a homeowner who takes pride in my property and cares about the well-being of animals, I find myself constantly frustrated by a common trend in my neighborhood: the prevalence of so-called "outdoor cats."

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My partner tickles to flirt but I hate it

My partner tickles to flirt but I hate it

My partner tickles me and thinks it's playful and flirty. It's annoying and doesn't get me in a sexy mood. How do I tell him to stop without it hurting his feelings?

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Buff-infused toast

Buff-infused toast

Like every Buff Boy, coffee is needed to start my day. Let's be honest: that goes for most people.

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Heeeeeere's Johnny!

Heeeeeere's Johnny!

Howdy, folks, let me tell you about my recent trip to Nashville, Tenn.

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Powered on the go

Powered on the go

When we travel, the last thing we want to worry about is bringing one more device, one more cord, one more cord for that one more device. But, hear me out. This one is worth it... and you barely need any space for it.

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My partner is 'that guy' recording conflict in public

My partner is 'that guy' recording conflict in public

My partner is one of those people that whips out his phone and records conflict and drama in public. He's "that guy" that's always trying to get viral social media content of confrontations and fights. How can I tell him to stop?

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Are those people really that angry?

Are those people really that angry?

I’ve been doing a lot of thinking lately, a kind of internal audit of my own emotional responses, and it's led me down a fascinating, slightly unsettling rabbit hole.

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Choco Buff'ed pudding

Choco Buff'ed pudding

There's something irresistibly comforting about a rich, creamy chocolate pudding. For me, it's a nostalgic trip back to childhood, but I've always loved finding ways to elevate classic desserts. My latest obsession? Infusing that deep, decadent chocolate flavor with the robust kick of quality coffee -- Buff Boy Brewing coffee, of course! (Come on, like we're gonna push low-end Folgers or something??)

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What your video's jump-cut edits really say about you

What your video's jump-cut edits really say about you

For a while now, I’ve been observing a phenomenon that, frankly, has grown beyond a mere trend and morphed into a pervasive cultural expectation. It’s the insistent whisper – or often, a shout – that everyone needs to be a content creator.

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Trickling tranquility

Trickling tranquility

Many people are into meditation or relaxation music (or both) to chill out at the end of the day -- or even to reduce stress during a trying day. I've tried 'em, they're not my thing.

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My partner wants us to be more social, I don't

My partner wants us to be more social, I don't

I'm an introvert but my partner is an extrovert. He's the life of the party and I like staying home and having quiet nights. He insists we go out and do more but I have no interest in that. Should I be more social or should he be less social?

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Cops have a bad rap and their body cams don't help it

Cops have a bad rap and their body cams don't help it

Like many TV viewers, I find myself occasionally drawn to the flashing lights and siren calls of reality cop shows. "Body Cam," "PD Cam," "Police 24/7" – they offer a glimpse into the daily grind of law enforcement, a ride-along from the comfort (and safety) of my couch.

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Buff does 4th of July

Buff does 4th of July

We couldn't let a 4th of July go by without stripping down and playing with our meat. It's barbecue time! And maybe a little beer. Maybe a little lot of beer. OK, beer. Let's just leave it at that. Mind your own business!

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High-tech (and high-priced) skincare

High-tech (and high-priced) skincare

If there's one thing we're known for around these parts it's our hair and skin. And that skin has seen its share of needles to maintain our famous plastic Hollywood faces!

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