To be a fly on the wall for this

To be a fly on the wall for this

Ben is the strong silent type. You’re more likely to catch him reading a book in the bath than you are to see him raging on the dancefloor of a sweaty nightclub. Either lying in silence or to the strings of classical music, Ben stays calm… unless something breaks his focus.

Club Buff Club Buff
What your video's jump-cut edits really say about you

What your video's jump-cut edits really say about you

For a while now, I’ve been observing a phenomenon that, frankly, has grown beyond a mere trend and morphed into a pervasive cultural expectation. It’s the insistent whisper – or often, a shout – that everyone needs to be a content creator.

Club Buff Club Buff
I learned so much exploring Uranus

I learned so much exploring Uranus

At first I thought Adventure Science Center in Nashville would be for kids. Maybe it is to a certain extent but adults can have a fun time, too. Turn me loose in anything I can light up or make loud and I'm all in.

Club Buff Club Buff
My mom keeps trying to set me up on dates

My mom keeps trying to set me up on dates

I'm single and my mom keeps trying to set me up with people. She doesn't know my type and she's picking people who aren't even close to my style. How do I tell her to piss off?

Club Buff Club Buff
Cops have a bad rap and their body cams don't help it

Cops have a bad rap and their body cams don't help it

Like many TV viewers, I find myself occasionally drawn to the flashing lights and siren calls of reality cop shows. "Body Cam," "PD Cam," "Police 24/7" – they offer a glimpse into the daily grind of law enforcement, a ride-along from the comfort (and safety) of my couch.

Club Buff Club Buff
(Not) large and in charge

(Not) large and in charge

As someone who's often double-fisting phones (my own, and on the days I'm tasked with monitoring the Buff phone), it's a constant pain to keep monitoring battery levels so I'm not running low without a charger when I'm out and about.

Club Buff Club Buff
No, seriously, it's my mom's bra

No, seriously, it's my mom's bra

It’s natural to be nervous on your first date. It’s an exciting time for a teenager. After all, it could be a lifelong relationship. But, let’s be honest, it’s not. Nevertheless, hours of preparation goes into making it a memorable time for not only you but the date you’re trying to impress.

Club Buff Club Buff
Buff'ed choco-spresso dip

Buff'ed choco-spresso dip

There are few culinary pairings I love as much as chocolate and Buff coffee. They just belong together, don't they? That rich bitterness of coffee perfectly complements the sweet depth of chocolate. And if you're like me, constantly looking for easy ways to satisfy a sweet craving that feels a little bit gourmet, then keep reading for my utterly addictive chocolate espresso dip.

Club Buff Club Buff
Where did the energy and excitement of childhood go?

Where did the energy and excitement of childhood go?

Just a few days ago, as the lazy Los Angeles afternoon melted into evening, I caught a news segment that stopped me in my tracks. It was about how students are falling (even more) behind and the pandemic didn't help and yadda-yadda-yadda. It showed a bunch of B-roll of sad kids for added emphasis.

Club Buff Club Buff
My needy partner constantly fishes for compliments

My needy partner constantly fishes for compliments

I'm in a new relationship and it seems like my partner is constantly fishing for compliments. When he makes food, he's always asking how it is. When we go out, he asks if I like his outfit. The first couple of times it seemed like he genuinely wondered how I felt but I've caught on that it's his way of forcing me to compliment or say nice things. It's kind of driving me insane already because it's coming across as needy.

Club Buff Club Buff
Blindfolded and harnessed

Blindfolded and harnessed

Montreal is usually known for its food. At least, that was my take when researching the Canadian city. The French thing, as a Californian, scared me a little bit because I thought I would feel like I would be lost in a foreign country. I guess, in a sense, I was.

Club Buff Club Buff
Buff'ed nan'er bread

Buff'ed nan'er bread

There are few things as comforting as a warm slice of banana bread. One, of course is Buff Boy coffee. Come on, that goes without saying! Both are staples in my kitchen, go-to must-haves for breakfast -- and after a great meal for dessert.

Club Buff Club Buff
My partner won't stop posting thirst traps

My partner won't stop posting thirst traps

I'm in a newer relationship but my partner is still posting thirst traps. It's bothering me that he still seemingly wants attention from his adoring fans. Is it wrong to ask him to change his needy habit on social media?

Club Buff Club Buff
Not every couple needs a social media reality show

Not every couple needs a social media reality show

I’ve never quite understood the compulsion. You know what I’m talking about, don’t you? That pervasive, almost aggressive need for couples to broadcast every single detail of their relationship on social media.

Club Buff Club Buff
Nice shell boobies, sir; They real?

Nice shell boobies, sir; They real?

A penis shoe. Yes, that's what I discovered in Quebec City... in a museum, no less. (Keep scrolling for the dude with shell titties.)

Club Buff Club Buff
Beefy Buff'ed gravy

Beefy Buff'ed gravy

For me, gravy isn't just a condiment; it's the soulful heart of any roast dinner, a luscious blanket that brings everything together. (How whimsical is that intro, hey??)

Club Buff Club Buff
The bar has been lowered on 'celebrity'

The bar has been lowered on 'celebrity'

I've made it pretty clear that I'm not a fan of life playing out on social media. Just scroll through my other commentaries in recent weeks. You'll see.

Club Buff Club Buff
His mom won't stop cock-blocking us

His mom won't stop cock-blocking us

I have a rule with my partner that we don't use our phones when we're on dates or out for dinner or whatever. The one exception for him is his mom. It's not that she's sick or there's an emergency but I think she does it to interrupt because it seems to happen a lot coincidentally when we're out. He still lives with her so obviously she knows he's not home but I can't help but thinking she's cockblocking on purpose.

Club Buff Club Buff
Get your bounce on

Get your bounce on

Quebec City: historic charm, cobblestone streets, European flair, picturesque strolls, delicious poutine, incredible architecture -- and a great place to bounce your ass off!

Club Buff Club Buff