My partner goes commando at the gym and people are talking. Should I tell him or let it continue?
Hmm, well, I notice you were selfish and didn’t tell us the address of said gym, but I won’t hold that against you.
I think you’ve missed sharing a major detail of the situation: does it bother you or not? You mention that people are talking but is that a good thing or bad thing? Is it like, “Hey, look at the hottie going commando?” or “Dude needs to cover up”? That makes a difference. And, again, is this embarrassing you or exciting you that people are checking out your hot man at the gym?
Let’s be honest, anyone going commando knows the feeling and freedom it brings. They’re well aware of how things are bipping and bopping down below. I can almost guarantee you he knows what’s happening and the potential looks he’s getting. So, again, my question to you is if this somehow upsets you, makes you embarrassed for him and, truthfully, what concern is it of yours? Are you workout buddies? Are you side by side at the gym? Are you working surveillance and spying? Something tells me you like your man giving people a show and that you get to see everything when the shorts come off.
Girl, stop playing with your pretend commando problem.